Lea, happy 32! I learned from your 32 lessons, thoughtful insight. You are honest regarding being a sex worker. To me sex workers are not whores. You provide a service for people with a need, no different than a Therapist.
Great thoughts, well said. I'm one of those older guys you mention and everything you said I have know problems with. You are honest about how you feel, and that's refreshing. Stand up and stand out.
I’m 31 years old and absolutely agreed with all of your points! The one I love the most is this. “Travelling and meeting people from all over the world and getting to know other cultures will educate you better than any school ever will.” I have lived in Canada, Brazil, Denmark, UK, Germany, and Hong Kong. One of the biggest privileges of my life is having friends from all over the world. Getting to know other cultures will make you richer than money ever will.
29 is my favourite point. I’ve always felt the same most people go through life just reacting, never really questioning their purpose or whether they’re on the right path. And like you said, that’s why so many end up unfulfilled. I think you see life more clearly than most, which is why I wanted to respond.
But reading your list also saddened me. I can feel how much hurt is woven into your wisdom. You’ve become guarded, especially against men. And it makes sense in your line of work, you attract a certain kind of man, often the broken ones, the ones using you to fill their own emptiness. But that means you’re stuck in a loop: letting men use you, then resenting them for it, and reinforcing the belief that all men are the same.
If you’re willing to take advice from a stranger: stop sleeping with men for a while. One of the deepest joys in life is finding someone worth your love, and I can see you have so much love to give. But good men don’t make themselves available to women in the sex industry. That’s not a moral judgment, it’s just reality. It’s like an incel saying, ‘all women are shallow bitches who don’t want sex.’ It’s not that women don’t want sex, it’s that they don’t want sex with him. The truth stings, but sometimes it’s exactly what we need to hear.
If, in your eyes, all men are these horrible creatures and women are far superior in loyalty and compassion, then maybe the issue isn’t just men. Because good men find good women. Stop giving yourself away to people who haven’t earned it. Take time to really know someone’s character before you share yourself. Forgive yourself for the past, but don’t act entitled to unconditional acceptance, that only keeps you trapped.
I loved your list. It was raw, authentic, and wise. But it’s not complete yet. There’s still bitterness in it. And the challenge ahead of you isn’t to abandon your honesty, it’s to transform that hate into wisdom. That’s when your words won’t just sting, they’ll heal.
I love how from a few mins read you think you know everything about me and my life and you feel entitled to give me unsolicited advice on how to live it.
Unfortunately what you think is bitterness is actually just a sarcasm and my sense of humour.
If you've done your research you'd know I love men! I love my partners and I love my clients. And thanks to my work I've met the most incredible men who allow me to live my life exactly how I want it. So saying "good men don't make themselves available to women in the sex industry" shows your lack of understanding and education on this matter. It also makes you sound like a religious twat.
So please, keep reading people's writings but mind your business and focus on your own life. I certainly won't stop having sex because some random dude said so. Especially since I'm having so much fun!
Ps. women absolutely are superior to men. And the best men know that. x
I’ll always comment honestly on posts, even if that means giving unsolicited advice you’re free to ignore it. You’re right though, I can sound like a religious twat 😂 and I appreciate your reply because it showed me I didn’t do my research. From one post I would’ve never guessed you had healthy relationships with men.
I still believe men and women are equal, different, but equal. I also didn’t mean to come across as harsh, which clearly I did. That’s on me, I’ll work on it.
I’ll admit I don’t fully understand sex work because my life is far from it. I’ve just seen data showing higher body counts often link to higher divorce rates, and I can’t ignore the long-term risks. I know you’re having fun, and I genuinely do want the best for you. My advice wasn’t hate it really was from wanting good for a stranger.
There’s a lot I don’t know, and I am just some random guy on the internet. If you’re confident in your choices, follow your centre. I only say this because I’ve read too many people regret it later. Either way live your life, I truly hope you’re right.
Lea, happy 32! I learned from your 32 lessons, thoughtful insight. You are honest regarding being a sex worker. To me sex workers are not whores. You provide a service for people with a need, no different than a Therapist.
If you don't know where the clit is you're like a borderline virgin....or a fucking idiot.
Great thoughts, well said. I'm one of those older guys you mention and everything you said I have know problems with. You are honest about how you feel, and that's refreshing. Stand up and stand out.
Thank you so much for your kind words and for reading 😘💕
Excellent wisdom you wrote down! Thank you for that :)
Of course happy belated 32nd birthday🥳
Words to live by
Happy 32!
Thank you for sharing! I may disagree with #13 lol but, I also haven’t seen many other dicks haha
Women who wear socks to bed are invariably wilder. If they start wearing your underwear (boxers) as lingerie you have found the promised land.
Seems as though sex has served you as a portal to higher awareness.
Camping breakfast!😃
I’m 31 years old and absolutely agreed with all of your points! The one I love the most is this. “Travelling and meeting people from all over the world and getting to know other cultures will educate you better than any school ever will.” I have lived in Canada, Brazil, Denmark, UK, Germany, and Hong Kong. One of the biggest privileges of my life is having friends from all over the world. Getting to know other cultures will make you richer than money ever will.
Couldn't agree more <3
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Could points 1 and 4 be related?
29 is my favourite point. I’ve always felt the same most people go through life just reacting, never really questioning their purpose or whether they’re on the right path. And like you said, that’s why so many end up unfulfilled. I think you see life more clearly than most, which is why I wanted to respond.
But reading your list also saddened me. I can feel how much hurt is woven into your wisdom. You’ve become guarded, especially against men. And it makes sense in your line of work, you attract a certain kind of man, often the broken ones, the ones using you to fill their own emptiness. But that means you’re stuck in a loop: letting men use you, then resenting them for it, and reinforcing the belief that all men are the same.
If you’re willing to take advice from a stranger: stop sleeping with men for a while. One of the deepest joys in life is finding someone worth your love, and I can see you have so much love to give. But good men don’t make themselves available to women in the sex industry. That’s not a moral judgment, it’s just reality. It’s like an incel saying, ‘all women are shallow bitches who don’t want sex.’ It’s not that women don’t want sex, it’s that they don’t want sex with him. The truth stings, but sometimes it’s exactly what we need to hear.
If, in your eyes, all men are these horrible creatures and women are far superior in loyalty and compassion, then maybe the issue isn’t just men. Because good men find good women. Stop giving yourself away to people who haven’t earned it. Take time to really know someone’s character before you share yourself. Forgive yourself for the past, but don’t act entitled to unconditional acceptance, that only keeps you trapped.
I loved your list. It was raw, authentic, and wise. But it’s not complete yet. There’s still bitterness in it. And the challenge ahead of you isn’t to abandon your honesty, it’s to transform that hate into wisdom. That’s when your words won’t just sting, they’ll heal.
First of all - thank you for reading!
I love how from a few mins read you think you know everything about me and my life and you feel entitled to give me unsolicited advice on how to live it.
Unfortunately what you think is bitterness is actually just a sarcasm and my sense of humour.
If you've done your research you'd know I love men! I love my partners and I love my clients. And thanks to my work I've met the most incredible men who allow me to live my life exactly how I want it. So saying "good men don't make themselves available to women in the sex industry" shows your lack of understanding and education on this matter. It also makes you sound like a religious twat.
So please, keep reading people's writings but mind your business and focus on your own life. I certainly won't stop having sex because some random dude said so. Especially since I'm having so much fun!
Ps. women absolutely are superior to men. And the best men know that. x
I’ll always comment honestly on posts, even if that means giving unsolicited advice you’re free to ignore it. You’re right though, I can sound like a religious twat 😂 and I appreciate your reply because it showed me I didn’t do my research. From one post I would’ve never guessed you had healthy relationships with men.
I still believe men and women are equal, different, but equal. I also didn’t mean to come across as harsh, which clearly I did. That’s on me, I’ll work on it.
I’ll admit I don’t fully understand sex work because my life is far from it. I’ve just seen data showing higher body counts often link to higher divorce rates, and I can’t ignore the long-term risks. I know you’re having fun, and I genuinely do want the best for you. My advice wasn’t hate it really was from wanting good for a stranger.
There’s a lot I don’t know, and I am just some random guy on the internet. If you’re confident in your choices, follow your centre. I only say this because I’ve read too many people regret it later. Either way live your life, I truly hope you’re right.